I Did a Thing!
- Cathy Stenquist
- 20 hours ago
- 3 min read
I don't know.... Maybe it was seeing both my son's gardens each time we visited, and going away with hands full of their bounty and a definite big case of "garden envy."
Or maybe it was the recent binge watching of Jeremy Clarkson, the farmer-wanna-be on Clarkson's Farm that made me feel like I could maybe grow... something? Knowing nothing about farming, he took us on a journey of trial and error, discovery, disappointment and the eternal battle with Mother Nature. When he finally was able to accomplish something, he'd comment in joyful voice, "I did a thing!"

Here's the Trailer for Season 1. (Disclaimer: There is some swearing in the dialogue)
So I decided I was going to try. I wanted to "do a thing!"
So this Mother's Day, my sons came over and scoped out the best location for sun, and whipped up a 4'x 8' garden box for me. I was excited to have it right outside my kitchen window. I knew if I could see it each day. It wouldn't get forgotten or over grown with weeds. Soon the box was filled with sticks and leaves etc and a good thick amount of compost and soil. Now what to plant?

Feeling optimistic!
At the local library I came across a seed lending library, where kind gardeners had shared some of their seeds in small manilla envelopes. I could "check out" up to 5 varieties. So, I took home green bean, green pepper, carrot, and summer squash and snuggled them into the dirt. I watered, watched and prayed that I might see some buds. To my delight, a few carrots bravely pushed up and then a couple of peppers and squash. Success!
When the time was right to plant, I visited Lowes to "fill in" my box. I must say, I was a bit ambitious. I mean, who wouldn't be? After all they look so small. Walking through the vegetable plants, they each seemed to be calling to me, "Take ME home!" and "I'll give you a good harvest!" So, I took home a zucchini plant, an eggplant, two tomatoes, rosemary and some sweet potato plants. On the way home, I had a mixture of buyers regret and excitement, like a kid who walks into a candy shop and her tummy soon tells her she bought way to much.

It's SO hard to say no!
Getting my hands in the soil, making a hole and welcoming the plant to it's new home was a special experience— somehow, connecting me to Mother Earth and the cycle of life in an intimate way.

Over the weeks, with lots of sun and a little,(or maybe a lot) of Miracle Grow, the plants have exploded! I seriously am being taken over by seeds gone rogue! I swear I can see those leaves double in size each day.

Here are the 1st year gardening lessons I learned:
You can start small. You don't have to grow everything the first year.
Don't over plant. Give you plants space to grow and they WILL!
It is fun to talk to your plants and encourage them.
The harvest is not the only success. Just trying to do a thing is a success.
The seeds that didn't sprout despite my tender care, weren't meant to be, but they did have a purpose in teaching me to be a better gardener.
Little seeds, no bigger than your pinky nail, can blossom into gigantic plants with the right care.
Deer will love your fresh daily salad of sweet potato leaves that they nibble at night while you are fast asleep...dreaming of how good those sweet potatoes will taste.
I am glad that I covered the bottom of the box with chicken wire before I put in the soil, so that animals could not come up from below to grab a snack.
A raised garden helps with ground hogs and rabbits & a fence IS NECESSARY!
Chipmunks and squirrels can still run right through the fence at lightning speed.
Mourning doves and sparrows will LOVE to take a dirt bath in your garden. So cute.
There is nothing quite as peaceful as going out to your garden, quietly weeding then giving the plants a drink each day. It will fill your soul.
And finally, I am already thinking about how to expand this garden next year. A second bed? With a chicken wire arch between them for cucumbers?
Pinterest... Here I come.

I highly recommend getting your hands in the soil. It literally is grounding.
And to be able to eat something that was just a seed a few short weeks ago,
grown with no pesticides, out in the fresh air, is AMAZING!
Hmmmm.... now what should I make with my bounty?